Life with an alcoholic, addict, bi-polar / psychotic (ex) spouse. Dealing with the manic, erratic, terrifying behavior, the sadness and decisions to be made to keep sane. My decision was to leave before he completely lost his mind.
Thursday, August 22, 2013
127. YAY The Short Sale Was Approved
I didn't post about the nightmare that has been the short sale. It was an emotional roller coaster that I thought would never end.
Even if you do everything right it seems the bank wants something else. It was the most nerve wracking experience I've had though not nearly as bad as what's happened with Mark.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
126. Fear: I Had To See Him Today At The Hearing
Today there was another hearing today the public defender had asked for. Jenica, who is the states attorney was on maternity leave. I had her replacement there to represent me. The public defender was going to try to get Mark bond again. Short of that she was at least going to try to get him moved back to the general population in jail and privileges back to call her.
I had to see him while I was there. Mark sat over with all of the other prisoners. He kept looking at me throughout the hearing. I kept moving so the person in front of me blocked his view. I don't want to see him and I don't want to give him the opportunity to see me. He scares me.
Sunday, August 11, 2013
125. My Step Mom Had A Heart Attack
My step mom, Paula had a heart attack. It is just incredible because she is so healthy, never has smoked, doesn't drink and eats well. It seems it is hereditary. All of her brothers had heart attacks as well.
She is having a stint put in her heart and won't be able to go to high altitudes anymore. I am just so thankful she survived. She is a wonderful lady and my dad would be lost without her.
Friday, August 2, 2013
124, Mark Fired The Attorney He Never Paid
Mark requested his attorney be removed from his case back in May. Kristin told me she would never return his calls and would never come to see him. I really can't say I would blame her as Mark had no money to pay her, plus he's crazy.
Today the Judge granted his request, His attorney was replaced by the original Public Defender. He should have kept her in the first place.
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
123. A Sigh of Relief - My House Sold
The water guy came just as he promised in the morning and installed the new pump. He charged me nothing more then the service call for both visits. He is really a nice person as I said before.
Nancy, my Realtor, called me this afternoon. I guess all of the emotional turmoil I had yesterday was for naught. It seems the reason the people stayed so long at my house is they really loved it and made an offer. What a relief. Now, I just have to get the the short sale approval.
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
122. House Viewings and Extreme Sadness
I have been spending all of my free time fixing up the house the best I can since I moved back there in May. There was so much to do that it was a bit overwhelming. Especially since I have to continue running the company as well.
My Realtor, Nancy finally put my house on the MLS around July 8th. She had waited as we had so much paperwork to do with the bank to request a short sale. We still don't know if the short sale will be allowed, but I did my hardship letter and all of the paperwork is complete. The scary part is that Nancy says she has a short sale that has been going on for seven months already. I just hope and pray that doesn't happen to me.
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
121. I Got My Temporary Relief - Hearing
We had a temporary relief hearing today in front of Judge Marx at the Palm Beach County court in Palm Beach Gardens.
Mark's attorney showed up and was out in the lobby waiting with us as we were waiting for our turn to go in.
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